Monday, 7 November 2011
Last week I posted some images on The Fashion Bomb, you can check them out here. While the comments I received were generally positive with some very good feedback. I could not ignore the negative ones. I mean, theres something to be said about someone who sits behind their computer to make nasty and personal comments about someone they know nothing about!
Before I started fashion blogging, my other blogger friends had warned me about the so called Anonymous commenters. I shrugged it off because as bloggers we put ourselves out there to be critiqued. Fashion is very objective. What might look good to one person, might be an eyesore to another.
However my very first hateful comment made me laugh (they said I looked like a gremlin with lipstick on), because I knew that I had finally touched someone's soul. I was doing something so right that this so called person was pissed. Thats the way I see it! I make it a rule to delete the comments that are negative, I do not moderate my comments for a reason. But I will not allow someone's low self esteem and stupidty to be sprawled on this blog, take it somewhere else.
For the rest of you that take your time to leave positive and constructive comments. Thank you very much, It is appreciated more than you know.






32 comments:
Girl, you have to ignore those types of comments because those people have nothing better to do with their day than just to talk crap about people. You are beautiful and your style is just as beautiful. Tell them to keep it moving.
I started following you after seeing your feature on The Fashion Bomb Daily. I think your style is great, and I appreciate what you said about negativity in regards to fashion and fashion blogs. Style is subjective, and there's no need for anyone to be rude if they're not feeling what someone is wearing. Keep doing your thing!!
Negative ANON commentators annoy me to no end. Ugh. It's like, you're so ballsy behind the 'protection' of a computer screen and keyboard. *roll eyes* So sad. Yeah, just continue what you're doing in deleting their comments immediately. Don't give those kind of folks any type of shine.
Meanwhile, your shoes are too cute. Love how you styled your braids. Really nice.
It baffles me to think of the amount of ignorant people that still exist in our cultured society. Where did these people to go school? Uneducated fools are the ones that make comments like those. Don't pay attention to such ignorance, you are above that and I applaud you for doing what you love. Your fashion is unique and shows your passion and individuality and you are beautiful.. keep up the amazing work!
XO
I think this is exactly why I don't do FB, it's a platform for haters and negative Nancy's to comment really nasty at someone else's style.
gorgeous heel, i want oneee!
Great look, baby
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Girl don't EVEN worry about that I started following u after seeing ur feature b/c I loved ur style!!!!!
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I love those shoes! The whole outfit is fiyah including your braids! Keep doing what you do ignore the rest!
www.kellymonroe.blogspot.com
I may not always leave comments but I'm checking you and I love. Keep it up
Love this look! those heels are sexy ;-)
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I love the way you phrased that: "I was doing something so right that this so-called person was pissed." As bloggers, we all put ourselves out there and negativity definitely does come our way sometimes, but your perspective on it is so fresh and healthy. Oh, and your heels? Amazing. Ditto that gorgeous handbag.
xox,
Cee
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love love the shoes!
Computer and internet gives people all kinds of 'bravery' and 'courage'.These silly people can never utter those words to your face in real life and that makes them COWARDS!!!mchewww
Fantastic shoes! They're a great colour for fall!
ps. Who won those tickets?
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I LOVE the scarf in your hair. :) xo
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Dont feel too bad it means they know what they are doing is wrong, thats why they cant come out and say it to your face. Do what you do :)
Love the look.
as for Fashion Bomb Daily *rolls eyes* those with negative comments can do one.
J x
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Do you boo!
I never really understood tights and sandals but this works! love the shoes. very YSL-esque.
bisous
Just brush those negative comments! You are doing a fine job here, they don't know you and indeed their just jalous and I love your shoes!
xo
Youre a Lovely Lovely Fashion Princess
beautiful outfit!!!lovely pics!!!amazing blog!!!
i'm following you!!!if you like mine, do the same!!
Love it ..especially those sandals!! ignore the haters!!
Oyin
http://sleekstylish.blogspot.com/
I totally love these- that second picture is so cute. No worries about haters, they'll always be there, especially when you're doing something noteworthy
Adiya
http://museorigins.com
Shoes are FIRE. Fire fire fire.
LOVE this look girl, super cute =]
I just checked out your feature on FashionBomb and I love your style. Definitely was loving the heck out of that yellow dress...and we gon' need to talk about that big hair. Loved it.
Those anonymous commenters can be downright evil, but such is life. You can't please everybody...all you can do is shrug 'em off and keep on trucking. Keep on doing you. It definitely works for you!
Love this outfit.
You hair is too cute!
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Shanice,
♥ www.shanicexoxo.info
Just do what make you happy, hun ;)
LMAO @ your first hate comment "gremlin with lipstick ON!" CLASSIC! that just too funny! =D =))
You are a gorgeous girl and need to just keep doing you.
Any loser can sit behind a screen and be nasty. Your confidence just highlights their insecurities.
Ekaete xx
Do good they talk, do bad they talk! Screw Them! Loving this get up! The colorful stripes are giving me life this fall season! And those shoes,,,,, I literally saved them as my screen saver! I'm in love with them and now I'm on a mission to find them! Can you say "shoestalker" LOL xoxo ty
i thoroughly enjoy this outfit!!!!!!!! There is no words to describe how much I love it
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Lovely outfit. .Im a new follower x
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